When Mrs. Norvell was interviewed after her retirement about her outstanding commitment, she replied, “There isn’t anything unusual about a woman keeping a light in her window to guide people home. I just happen to keep a bigger light because I have so many people to get safely home.”* In other words, it was just her job.
What Mrs. Norvell said reminded me of the last conversation I had with my mother. She was in a hospital bed after breaking her hip and suffered from congestive heart disease. I hadn’t seen her often because I lived in another state, but she was still lucid enough to ask me how I was doing, and how my children were. She said, “I worry about you.” I’d heard this from her my whole life and didn’t understand. However, that day I asked her about it. “Why, Mother? Why do you worry about me?” Her response, “That’s my job.” And then I understood what she meant. It was just her job as a mother to worry about, to care for me, her child.
I wonder if Mrs. Norvell ever thought she couldn’t handle the responsibility. Did she think the job was too big for her, too demanding? If she did, it didn’t stop her from doing the best she could with what she had. Why? Because it was her job.
Sometimes I’m faced with a responsibility which seems too big for me to handle. I doubt my ability and fear failure. I know there are others that feel this way too, whether as a boss, an employee, a spouse, parent, grandparent, caregiver, etc. We wonder if we are up to the task and often wish there was someone else who could take the burden from us. So how do we handle the duty, the job?
The truth is, we don’t have to handle it alone. God says He comes alongside us and helps to carry our burdens. We are not alone, and we don’t have to worry about our ability. He can handle it. That’s His job.
“Cast all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.” 1 Peter 5:7
This post almost brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for the reminder. I feel this way often. People say, “I don’t know how you do it with five kids.” Well, it’s my job. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you accept both the responsibility and the strength God gives you.
I knew you could relate to this!
I really enjoyed reading this and in fact read it twice. Thank you for sharing Margaret Norvell’s story and reminding us that we have God’s help to carry the load.
Thanks Colette! Glad you liked it
Mrs. Norvell’s story sounds like it should make it into a book! 🙂 Thanks for sharing it, Marilyn…and your insights to go with it. And Sarah, I’m humbled by your comment, too.
Thank you for sharing this special story. 2011 was the year of learning to Cast My Care more than ever. My ‘job’, since 2007, has been to care for my elderly parents with dementia. So often I’ve felt unqualified and overwhelmed by the task, but God was so very present, especially in the moments when I needed Him most. His comfort and encouragement would flood over me when I thought I could not go on. He so gently taught me to cast my care and trust Him. He has never let me down! Thank you for your encouragement.
Lauralyn (what a pretty name!), I’m so glad the story ministered to you. I know it can be quite a burden to care for aging parents, but Thank God, they have you to look after them. Many aren’t so privileged. May God richly bless you and strengthen you as you continue to do the right thing.
Well done! My wife is the great great grandaughter of Margaret and she thanks you for your post. Drop me an email and I’ll send you a photo of Madge if you’d like. Cheers!
Wow! That’s awesome! I’m so glad she liked it.
Hi Marilyn!
I came across your blog while searching for more info on my great-great grandmother, who is the Margaret “Madge” Norvell for which you wrote of! Thank you so much for your analogy, as it relates to the grace and mercy which our loving Father gives us through the carrying of our burderns. I’m so glad you chose her story to be included in your writing.
As a matter of fact, this very weekend we were invited by the Coast Guard as they commisioned and dedicated their new high speed cutter ships, one of which they named after Margaret Norvell. It was the first time in the history of the Coast Guard in which they named a ship after a person, so our family feels very honored by this.
So I’m curious… how did you come across her story?
Thanks again!
Hi Danielle, It’s great hearing from you ! Thanks for letting me about your relation to Margaret Norvell. I’m glad you liked the blog. How awesome that the Coast Guard commissioned a ship in her name!
To answer your question, I used a couple of sources. One was a book called “Women Who Kept the Lights.” I also used the website of Lighthouse Friends.com. As a native Louisianan, I was most interested to find out about Margaret and the work she did. What a courageous woman she was!
Danielle,
I am a volunteer with the Lake Pontchartrain Basin Foundation (www.saveourlake.org). As you may know, the lighthouse will open as a museum in mid-April 2013 and we are searching for information about your great-great grandmother and the other ladies who served as lighthouse keepers at the New Canal lighthouse. We would love to have copies of photos if you have any.
Thanks,
Sue
I am working on a commemoritive poster for the USCGC Margaret Norvel and would very much like to contact Danielle Novel Lawrence about research material she may have in reference to Margaret Novel. I am a graphic artist with L-3 communications and I am given the opportunity to create a poster for each of the Fast Response Cutters for the United STates Coast Guard. This will be number 5. Can you help with a phone number or email address.
Regards
James
Hey Marilyn,
I am Danielle’s mom and she told me about your post so had to read it. It was very heartwarming to read especially on Mother’s Day eve! Danielle also told me
you were coming to the commissioning of the Margaret Norvell and we are excited to meet you. You seem to be a very genuine person and loves to write.
Can’t wait to meet you.
Terry Norvell
Hi Terry. I’m so glad you liked the post. Look forward to meeting you in New Orleans!